"If you can imagine it, you can achieve it 
If you can dream it, you can become it."   WILLIAM ARTHUR WARD


In Celebration of Less Politically Correct Times...   
Spiritmail August 28th, 2008


This morning I received two great emails from Maverick Spirit readers and I thought they deserved sharing with a wider audience. The first email was from a great friend of mine - Chris Wood of Driving Australia who got a chuckle out of how things were if you were born before the though police gained control... and the second email was from Michelle Allsop of Dare to Succeed and her email talks about "Magic Moments."

I have included a picture of myself with my two brothers and sister when we spent a day at the beach in Busselton in 1956... that's me next to my sister Lurline with my blond brother Neil and my eldest Geoff. Before you comment about the baker or the milkman, when I was born we lived in Cowaramup, just north of Margaret River and my dad WAS the baker, the milkman and a few other occupations as well.


Happy Days Busselton 1956CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1920's, 30's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us and lived in houses made of asbestos.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes or cervical cancer.

Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets or shoes, not to mention, the risks some of us took hitchhiking.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a Ute on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

Take away food was limited to fish and chips, no pizza shops, McDonalds, KFC, Subway or Red Rooster.

Even though all the shops closed at 6.00pm and didn't open on the weekends, somehow we didn't starve to death!

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We could collect old drink bottles and cash them in at the corner store and buy Fruit Tingles and some fire crackers to blow up frogs and lizards with.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soft drinks with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because......

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. We built tree houses and cubby houses and played in creek beds with matchbox cars.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape or DVD movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no Lawsuits from these accidents.

Only girls had pierced ears!

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

You could only buy Easter Eggs and Hot Cross buns at Easter time.......no really!

We were given BB guns and sling shots for our 10th birthdays,

We drank milk laced with Strontium 90 from cows that had eaten grass covered in nuclear fallout from the atomic testing at Maralinga in 1956.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!

Mum didn't have to go to work to help dad make ends meet!

Footy had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

Our teachers used to belt us with big sticks and leather straps and bully's always ruled the playground at school.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!

Our parents got married before they had children and didn't invent stupid names for their kids like 'Kiora' and 'Blade'.....

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 70 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned  HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

And if YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!

PS - If you can't read this due to failing eyesight, increase the size of the type on your screen!

And here are the words from Michelle: "Magic Moments"

The greatest tests are the ones we view as stupid

We forget to tell those who are important to us just how much we care.

There are two eternities that can really break you down. Yesterday & Tomorrow. One is gone and the other doesn't exist.. so live Today!

Don't marry a person that you know that you can live with; only marry someone that you cannot live without. Communication is the key to commitment.

Money can buy everything but happiness.

We view our problems as though they can never be solved.

We hold on to the past like it can help us through today.

We see challenges as a trial, forgetting that trials are what give us character.

We forget to smile, laugh and be happy.

Life is a wonderful gift, how we accept things in life depends on how we see ourselves.

Do not take life for granted. May yours be filled with love and happiness

'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!!!'
 


Enjoy this issue of The Maverick Spirit...  That's it for today, until next time, continue to enjoy being a free spirit in a complicated world... 

Wayne Mansfield

P.S.  With the drought still causing farmers heart ache, it might be of interest to know that in the Sahara Desert, there is a town named Tidikelt, which did not receive a drop of rain for ten years. Technically though, the driest place on Earth is in the valleys of the Antarctic near Ross Island. There has been no rainfall there for two million years. I wonder how Mr Rudd would fix that??

P.P.S. Whilst most Australians proudly boast that Melbourne is the second largest Greek city in the world, did you know that next to Warsaw, Chicago has the largest Polish population in the world. Now that might help you at the next quiz night! [ or not... ]


And for something really different:

Visit my daily thoughts and views at    Confessions of a Boy from Margaret River   where you can leave comments and ideas
on stuff that doesn't make it to The Maverick Spirit
 


Don't Do This If You Want to Succeed!

Whilst I am one to admit to appreciating the beauty of a crisply laundered and pressed pillowcase, just before my head hits the pillow, I think life is too short iron tea towels and sheets. The only time a tea towel should ironed is when you want to read the words of wisdom printed on them like "Rules of the Kitchen" especially if you are a man have forgotten them!

Source:          Jonathan Biggins. The 700 Habits of Highly INEFFECTIVE Poeple

MAVERICK QUOTE OF THE DAY

The unreal is more powerful than the real,
because nothing is as perfect as you can imagine it. Because its only intangible ideas, concepts, beliefs, fantasies that last.
Yet stone crumbles. wood rots. people, well, they die.
But things as fragile as a thought, a dream, a legend, they can go on and on.”

Chuck Palahniuki

 

Samuel Maverick (1803-70) Texan rancher who, when branding of stock was introduced chose "Not to Brand." Every unbranded horse or cow he then claimed as a Maverick!

Feedback:   Great feeling to know that the Maverick Spirit was missed... the feedback was overwhelming and I really appreciate the time people take to write and share... THANK YOU!

There is a special prize for those of you who spot the comment from a very unhappy camper who obviously doesn't think too highly of me... that's life I suppose?

Wayne

How interesting that for so long you've been a morning ritual of peruse, smile and bin until you weren't there for a while and I missed the routine.

Glad to see you're back in the saddle and I promise not to take "Maverick" for granted in future.

Michael White
www.frontlinediagnostics.com.au

Hi Wayne

In the mid 1990's I lived for 9months in Goa, approx 600klms south of Mumbai

Pulling together USD800million of Power Projects, my local partner was Rau's (the prime minister) sister-in-law

I never came to terms with the poverty & contempt that the Indians had for each other, & was continually bemused that when in people's houses everything was kept under lock & key, because they stole from each other

From experience & observation (very generally) Indians are traders (even happy to make 1 rupee on the trade) whilst Chinese are the capitalists & workers

I'm not sure how one works with (I had great difficulty) the endemic corruption that pervades throughout Indian business life

India is a huge & diverse country, so far it would appear that apathy & corruption & caste (contempt) & bureaucracy has slowed it's development & progress

I think that you'll find that most of the beggars are that "beggars" admittedly in the major cities, begging is frequently "a business" - there are just not sufficient jobs to employ every one - however that does not justify the abject poverty that many live in - some estimate 20+% of the population - that's 200 million people

Keith Ralf

Great newsletter Wayne – I really enjoyed it.


I have been to India 3 times and I agree with your observations.

I have sold the coffee business, and now own the Sydney rights to and an online restaurant dining guide: www.eatout-sydney.com.au

Fenwick Snowdon

This one snuck in............

[expletive deleted]

take me off this list, I'm not interested in the crap that dribbles from your mouth...

obviously unhappy punter!!

Wayne

I agree fully with your assessment of about India. The contrasts and contradictions apparent at every turn make India an intriguing destination.

I too received advice in India to ignore the beggars. Something that was painfully hard to do but absolutely necessary. The refusal of food clearly shows that appearances can be deceptive. The common story I heard was that despite all appearances the beggars are very capable of looking after themselves and the babes in arms often were “hired” specifically for the occasion. It gave me the impression of being a highly organised system.

In the more remote rural areas of India where, I suspect, poverty may have been an even greater problem than in the cities, we never experienced that type of harassment. Our appearance on the streets certainly attracted attention, particularly from the children who were curious and entertaining and who wanted to see the photo’s of themselves, but who asked for nothing in return.

For those travellers who feel the need to help the best way would be through those reputable charities (here or in India) who guarantee the rupees are put to good use.

Rob Souter

Hi Wayne.


Just a note to say thanks again for the inspiration, and to wish you luck with your venture in India.

It was interesting your observation of the beggars in the streets and that whole culture of corruption by western standards. My Friend has finished his dealings with his partners in India, and enjoyed less than satisfying results. he develops software and in the industry he is in, near enough isn't good enough. He found that the nicer he was with these people, the more they took advantage of him, and that a veneer or coat of paint approach was the preferred method rather than do the job properly. Then would come the negotiations after the "deal" was done, or so he thought......Needless to say, after trying an number of companies, he changed his approach and went elsewhere.

It certainly is a fascinating country, it really does remind you of how lucky we are in many respects, and while this country is far from perfect, we are incredibly blessed. I have friends who were originally from India, Sri Lanka and Bangladesh, and they can't wait to get back on the plane to their home here is Aus.

Anyway, good luck with your venture in the sub continent. There is huge potential there, but it in so many ways it is the "Wild West" and I'm not talking about a big night out in Margaret River ;-)

Chris Wilson

Hi Wayne


I was glad to see the Spirit and interested in your experiences in India. We visited there last year (mostly in the north) and found begging to be pretty rare perhaps it is more prevalent in the south , which is next on the agenda to visit. Mostly there was a thousand hawkers trying to sell us things or wanting money for us to take their picture. Since I've had so many pictures of me taken in my life and felt grumpy about it - I shelled out happily.
We adored India and took the same approach as the person you featured in your newsletter, which was to try and engage professional beggars in conversation or find a mutual interest - and we did buy a whole heap of stuff that we've really enjoyed (postcards, DVD's, jewellery etc). One thing I would say is to watch out for pirated copies of CD's, DVD's and even books by famous Indian authors. We did our best to make sure we were buying the real thing even if we had to pay more for it.

Good luck with spreading your business to India - it's a hell of a challenge but I'm sure you're good for it.

Muriel Cooper
Web: www.talkingroom.com.au

 




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