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Do you ever have one of those days when it felt like a mistake just to open
your eyes in the morning?? Well, as much as I am the best person to keep a
positive attitude going regardless of what is going on in the world, I
had a week of those days just recently.
In a legal matter, my highly paid legal advisor couldn't count to 21
when working out when we had to get some paperwork to the Court and they
- the Courts - seem to believe that their system of counting is the correct.
So, that miscalculation has cost a few $1,000's of precious scarce
resources and forces a emergency trip to Sydney to fight a matter which
should have been as simple as putting the papers in on the correct day.
And on Wednesday all our websites were subjected to savage denial of
service attacks and ultimately the website that hosts
The Maverick
Spirit was TURNED OFF!
My first thoughts were - NOT AGAIN! Is it really worth all the
hassles to indulge my passion for sharing stories of success and courage
with you a couple of times a week? And I got angry - how dare "they" do
this to The Maverick Spirit. So that was a day down the drain as we
found made other arrangements.
And on Thursday my diary failed to arrive with me when I made
it to my office. And you know which meeting my feeble brain forgot don't
you... you're right - the IMPORTANT one.
And I could add a few more to this litany of woe... but it seemed that apart
from the Government wanting their $5.5 million in fines, the universe was
also trying to punish me. Perhaps the most instructional things about these
events is that none of them were life threatening in their own right BUT the
cumulative effect was overwhelming and difficult to shake off the feeling:
Why keep doing this??
So, like many times in the past when I need to reigite my passion for life,
it became a time to seek guidance from my books. At that delightful bookshop
in Subiaco called "The
Inspiration Factory" I came across a
Robert Schuller book I hadn't
read before called Success
is Never Ending, Failure is Never Final. And after an hour with
Schuller and his magnificent Possibility Thinking regime, I am ready
to get on with achieving my dream and goals.
In some great examples that really rang true Schuller talks of the alcoholic
who confronts his condition and joins A.A. and becomes sober. That is
success. But he starts drinking again and the cynic says he is a failure.
However, Schuller says "No! Those weeks, months, years when he was sober -
weren't they wonderful. Positive memories were generated and collected that
will help him in the future. And when he was sober he inspired others to
also get sober. His success lives on. And one day those memories will
inspire him to become sober again.
Schuller also recalls the story of a woman who finally admitted she was
fat and gained the personal determination to join a responsible weight
loss program and she became thin. However, two years later, without
any particular reason, she gained 7 kilos. This started that vicious
circle of gaining and losing weight.
She became depressed and was ready to give. Schuller says that he counselled
her this way: "Count all the kilos you lost in all those diets put
together. Add the number to your present weight and tell me how heavy you
would be today." She thought a while and said "Gosh, I'd be over 180
kilos! I have had some success after all!"
What a different way to think about the challenges that have confronted
me in the last 18 months or so. They were really just chances to
reassess what is necessary to achieve my desired outcomes. Rather than start
to believe what my detractors are saying and writing about me, which is that
I am a hopeless failure, I can look back to see the incredible number of
people our business has helped in the last 20 years. And plan with
confidence the next 20 years when we will take our Business seminars to
the rest of the world.
So on Monday when I jump out of bed, I will know for sure that
Success is never ending... and failure is never final.
ACTION STEP: Tap into the power of 5 magic words" I CAN DO IT TOO!
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