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So you feel beaten up and bruised and you are ready to quit. You have no
support system or the one you have is pathetically inadequate for the goals
you have set. You are so tired that the couch is looking more and more
inviting everyday. You have bills piling up and you probably ought to get a
real job anyway. The failure rate is statistically high and nobody is going
to fault you if you quit. Who really cares if you give up and quit now?
You do.
Fall down
seven times, get up eight times.
Japanese Proverb
Late last
year, just after the press reported my troubles with the Government about
the sending of emails, and the imposing of $5.5 million in fines on my
business and myself, one of my readers wrote in and said:
“Now Wayne we will really see what you are made of!”
So, for the last three years I have been waging a battle against those who
would see me fail. A battle against those who see that anyone who challenges
the system deserves to be crushed. A battle that sometimes seems unwinnable.
Yet every time it seems like the battle has been conceded, someone or
something comes into my world and gives me a hand.
On the same day just 5 weeks ago that I received a 50 cm thick book
called "Taxing of Costs" of what the Government was claiming that they
had spent to bring their court case against me – sorry what they had
spent of your money – I received a brilliant 5cm thin book from
two of the people who say I have in some way or some how inspired them. The
Governments book claimed costs of $518,000 for running their case
against me and was meant to crush me.
My 5cm thin book, called i am gr8ful
for life was sent to inspire me. I choose to be inspired by that
book – thanks to Kim Serafini and Mel Boulton for sending it.
For every
failure, there's an alternative course of action.
You just need to find it. When you come to a roadblock, take a detour.
Mary Kay Ash
Sometimes I wish I could give you a magic solution as to how to find helpful
people when you are working on your goals and dreams but the truth is, most
people are too busy with their own lives to be able to offer much assistance
anyway. It is a rare and beautiful thing when the perfect person comes along
with nothing better to do then to roll up their sleeves and help. It is a
tough reality, but basically, it is your goal, your dream, and your job to
make it happen.
Most people
give up when they're about to achieve success.
They quit on the one-yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game,
one foot from a winning touchdown.
H Ross Perot
I am have
been lucky with the number of people who continue to support me in my quest
to make a difference and I am inspired by words and deeds of those who know
that you are not beaten until you fail to get up.
My solution for all the barriers that seem to have been put in my way is
to dream a bigger dream.
Funny thing about the really big powerful dreams, they haunt us.
Every time you turn around, there it is following you around reminding you
that you have not finished it yet. It will keep showing up in everything you
do and especially in the things that you do not do. If it really matters, if
it is your calling, if it is your life’s work, then it is not going to let
you give up.
It is easy to quit where so many others have already gone and failed
before you. Survival of the fittest dictates that not everyone is
ideally designed to accomplish all goals. Not everyone is supposed to
be an entrepreneur. Not everyone is meant to be a musician. Not
everyone is meant to be the prime minister. The truth is, if you have
picked a goal that is suited to your own natural talents and gifts and if it
is infused with your own passion and fire, then chances are that you are one
of the lucky few who is meant to live that dream.
History has
demonstrated that the most notable winners usually
encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed.
They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
B. C. Forbes
Just
because everyone else failed does not mean that you are meant to fail too.
Statistics do not mean anything unless you decide to become one.
You are either going to quit or you are going to find inspiration and keep
going. You can quit if you want, but you already know if quitting will feel
worse then trudging through a little while longer. Somewhere you know deep
down that you are meant to succeed. Don’t quit just yet.
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